Ilumine-Ao

To live with a Heart based consciousness is to live in Joy and for me that means to have your ego as your servant.

Read this great article by Nick Arrizza on his perspective of what can be done with the ego.

Are You Enslaved By Your Ego?

by Nick Arrizza M.D.

What we refer to colloquially as the “ego” is essentially the repository of all the needs that supposedly define who an individual is. I say “supposedly” because in fact that is “not” who they really are, it’s only who they “think” they are.

For instance how many times have you heard expressions like “you don’t meet my needs”? The “my” implies that those needs belong to the individual whose needs they are.

If you look at the impact that such needs have on an individual you will quickly see that they determine how that person’s entire life will unfold.

In other words they become the central organizing principles around which that person will find meaning in their life. That is because a need’s purpose is to generate a motivation to get it filled and as long as there is a need it will press the individual into action to fill it.

So as long as there are needs to be met there will be an internal pressure “forcing” the individual to meet them.

When one looks at the experience of having an unmet need one recognizes that it is not pleasant. It is often associated with feelings of lack, emptiness, anxiety, tension, dis-ease, frustration, sadness, irritation and so on. So it “pressures” the individual to appease the need in order to feel a greater sense of inner peace.

The problem however is that if one identifies one’s self with one’s personality or ego then there will always be needs to be met and there will never be a state of perpetual peace.

Now many of you are so caught up in the unconscious process of trying to fulfill your needs daily that you probably don’t even recognize the extent to which you are enslaved by them. You probably consider this situation as a normal one and dismiss it as such.

If you stop for a moment and notice how much energy it takes daily to meet these so called needs you will see that your entire life energy is being siphoned off by them.

If you are with me so far then you might wonder if there is a way out of this dilemma.

Well there is indeed. It requires dismantling the ego or personality once and for all. This means letting go of all those needs and allowing yourself to be in charge of your own destiny once again.

Yes, once again. Once, you see, you were in charge and then something happened and you were left feeling deficient or “needy”. What happened was that you were seduced, in a way that I cannot explain, into believing that you were something that you were not.

You were seduced into believing that you were in fact a being who was lacking the Divine ability to create whatever you desired whenever you desired it.

It’s like having a billion dollars in your closet yet being “brain washed” into thinking that you are a pauper.

Those negative beliefs, or lies about you, are also stored in what is called the ego or personality and they are anchored there by deeper lies that are unconscious.

It is possible to unearth these lies and permanently release them from your mind and body. By doing so the light of the truth of who you really are will shine through allowing you to re-experience your true Divine Self again.

All I ask you to do now is simply notice how you feel inside.

I suspect that for some of you what has been said will resonate at a deep level. If so simply notice it. This resonance is a sign that you are awakening from your slumber and beginning your journey to freedom.

Nick Arrizza MD is the developer of the Mind Resonance Process® (MRP) that powerfully and permanently erases negative memories.

Web Site: http://www.telecoaching4u.com or contact me at: drnick@telecoaching4u.com

What I tell all of my audiences is to listen to and follow your Heart. Then it becomes easier to do what you were born to do here on earth. Read the following great article by Nick Arrizza.

For our best and highest good, all ways…
Ilumine Ao,
Al Diaz

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Achieving Success:
Learning To Have Faith In Yourself

by Nick Arrizza M.D.

How many times have you heard successful people say that one of the most important lessons they learned on their journey to success was having faith in themselves?

Now for many this is not only a tall order it’s what blocks them from ever succeeding.

What does it mean to have faith in one’s self?

Well basically it means the ability to recognize the value of what it is that you came here to contribute to this planet.

Now many might say that they don’t even know what it is that they came here to contribute. If that is you, you are allowing yourself to fall into a state of self doubt that is undermining your connection to your inner wisdom and therefore the awareness of that purpose. You see everyone has a purpose in being here and you simply need to reconnect to it.

Suppose that you do know what you came here to contribute but are struggling with the value of that contribution here is what you can do.

See yourself making that contribution in some way and then notice what you feel inside yourself and where you feel it.

Most often one has such feelings emerge from the area in and around the Heart.

If you feel any of the following:

A feeling of lightness, joy, contentment, sense of peace, relief, expansive, open, clear, buoyant, present, energized, radiant, uplifted, inspiration etc.

Then ask yourself whether you like that/those feeling(s).

If you do then simply admit that to yourself by placing your hand over your Heart and speak to your self from there..

Then notice how you feel.

You should feel even more anchored in the positive experience you were having before.

Let me explain what has just happened.

In this exercise you have reconnected to your inner wisdom and allowed it to verify for you the importance and value of your contribution here.

The value was communicated to you in the feelings you had when you went through the exercise itself. It is in that feeling that lays the desire and inspiration to propel you forward in achieving your goals and your dreams.

Now that you feel it remember it and revisit it often. It will sustain you. In fact it is the source of all your passion for contribution and for life itself.

Allowing yourself to do this is what I mean by having faith in yourself.

Nick Arrizza MD, a former Psychiatrist and Medical Doctor is an International Life, Executive, Organizational Tele-Coach, Author, Keynote Speaker, Trainer and Facilitator. He is also on Faculty at Akamai University in Hawaii. He is the CEO and Founder of Arrizza Performance Coaching Inc. and the developer of the powerful Mind Resonance Process® (MRP).

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